I was going to stay out of this thread, because of the "heated undercurrent" nature of all of this, for sure. However, I just can't bring myself to not comment on the opinion stated by @FL22 up above, because it has been said so many times, by so many, that new people might think that it is the undisputed truth, and not just an opinion. And NO, I'm not picking on @FL22, for having a different opinion than mine, I'm just pointing out that in my opinion, I think that he, and others, who have talked about "unrealistic expectations" are actually wrong.My comment is simply pointing out that in my opinion some industry compensated influencers add to the unrealistic expectations.
It is my opinion that there is nothing being done by anybody, that can't be matched by someone else, if they actaully really want to. To tell anyone that it is unrealistic for them to expect, or do, what someone else does right in front of them is rather insulting. No, it isn't easy, and they very well likely 'might' not want to put in the work, but if they want to make it happen, it will. Why do so many people not have any faith in other hobbiest to have the same amount of dedication to their pursuit as the guys they are watching on YouTube? Insanity is often joked about, doing the same thing wrong over and over and expecting a different result, but the reverse is true too, do the same thing correctly over and over and you can expect the same result. That's reality. Everybody needs to stop telling others what they should expect from themselves and their efforts. It would be more helpful to point out, to newbies, what it actually took to make all those results actually happen; the time, experience, dedication, and yes, money, than to just throw shade and say, "yeah, don't expect any of that to happen for you!" That's what these forums are for, to help, not just for sour graping others. There's my "heated undercurrent" lol